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11What Are Desired Lives?22A Desired Life is a customizable life path that sets a Zoi's default valuespreferencesambitionand aligned skills. They are only available to Young Adults and older. Children and Teenagers cannot have a Desired Life. Choosing one is optional, and the defaults it sets can all be changed later through the Zoi's profile card.44The main benefit of picking a Desired Life is that it aligns the Zoi's Urges with their goals. Urges are spontaneous desires that pop up during gameplay. When a Desired Life matches the Zoi's traitthey get Urges that push them toward activities relevant to their ambition. Fulfilling Urges triggers positive emotions like Content and Concentrated.66Each Desired Life also sets a starting distribution for the ten Values (Autonomy, Authority, Accomplishment, Challenger, Coexistence, Love, Safety, Rule-Abiding, Traditionalist, and Pleasure). The Value with the highest score becomes the Zoi's Core Value, which unlocks unique social interactions and additional Urges once it reaches 60 points.88Choosing a Desired Life1010Desired Lives can be selected during character creation in the Creative Studio or assigned at any time through the Zoi Card. The choice is entirely optional. A Zoi can go through life without any Desired Life selected, and the game does not penalize this in any way.1212When a Desired Life is selected, it pre-fills the Zoi's recommended TraitsValues, Preferences, Ambition, and aligned Skills. None of these defaults are locked in. Players can freely mix a Desired Life's recommendation with different Traits or manually override the default Preferences. The Desired Life simply provides a thematic starting point.1515For players new to inZOI, picking a Desired Life that matches the intended playstyle makes the early game smoother because the Zoi will receive Urges that naturally guide them toward relevant activities. Experienced players who already know which Skills and Ambitions they want may prefer the A Life of Self-Creation (blank slate) to avoid any preset funneling.1717All 16 Desired Lives1919The table below summarizes every Desired Life in inZOIlisting its associated traitsdefault values, aligned skillsdefault ambitionand default preferences. Each Desired Life can be selected during character creation or changed later through the Zoi Card.2121Desired LifeAssociated TraitsDefault ValuesAligned SkillsDefault AmbitionDefault PreferencesLife of AbundanceSocialiteGo-GetterAuthority, AccomplishmentRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Charm, Programming, HouseworkLuxury MansionBall Sports, Coffee, Carnivorous, Plants, Self-Help BooksLife of AdvancementPerfectionistExplorerChallenger, AccomplishmentRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Programming, Fitness, Media ProductionCompetent TalentJogging, Coffee, Carnivorous, Self-Help Books, CleaningLife of PerseveranceAdventurerEntertainerChallenger, PleasureCritical Thinking, Fitness, Media ProductionCookingCoffee ArtFitness MasterBoxing, Street FoodAnimalsDancing, Taking PhotosLife of ContributionCollaboratorVolunteerCoexistence, LoveFitness, PerformanceCookingHousework, ParentingCheerful NeighborBall Sports, Street Food, CleaningLaundryCar WashingLife of CreativityVisionaryDreamerAutonomy, CoexistenceCharm, Performance, Art, Media ProductionInstrumentsGreat PainterAppreciating Art, Painting, Gaming, Art Books, GuitarLife of ExcitementAdventurerEntertainerChallenger, PleasureCharm, Fitness, Media ProductionInstrumentsCoffee ArtFamous HackerBoxing, Ball Sports, Spicy Food, Taking Photos, DrumsLife of Familial DevotionVolunteerCollaboratorCoexistence, LoveRhetoric, Media ProductionCookingHousework, ParentingLoving FamilyBall SportsAnimalsTaking Photos, Cleaning, Car WashingLife of FreedomIndividualistAuthoritarianAutonomy, PleasureCharm, Rhetoric, Performance, ArtInstrumentsNation's SweetheartYoga, Cake, Painting, Gaming, GuitarLife of HarmonySocial ActivistVolunteerCoexistence, LoveArt, Media ProductionCookingParentingGardeningPlant LoverJogging, CoffeeAnimalsPlants, Taking PhotosLife of RespectabilityGo-GetterLeaderAutonomy, AuthorityRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Fitness, Media Production, Coffee ArtNext Gen LeaderJogging, Coffee, Carnivorous, Self-Help BooksLaundryLife of RomanceCharmerEntertainerChallenger, LoveCharm, Rhetoric, PerformanceInstrumentsCookingNation's SweetheartYoga, VegetarianAnimalsSinging, GuitarA Life of Self-CreationNoneNoneNoneNoneNoneLife of SimplicityPerfectionistSocial ActivistCoexistence, Rule-AbidingCritical Thinking, FitnessCookingCoffee ArtGardeningTranquil MindJogging, Appreciating Art, Gaming, Health BooksRepairLife of StabilitySentinelMediatorSafety, Rule-AbidingRhetoric, Critical ThinkingCookingHouseworkGardeningWealthCoffee, Carnivorous, Gaming, CleaningLaundryLife of TranquilityDreamerMediatorTraditionalist, SafetyRhetoric, FitnessCookingHouseworkGardeningTranquil MindYoga, Vegetarian, Plants, Health Books, PianoLife of WisdomScholarExplorerRule-Abiding, ChallengerCritical Thinking, ProgrammingCookingHouseworkGardeningKnowledge SeekerVegetarian, Appreciating Art, Self-Help Books, Art BooksRepair2323Detailed Breakdown of Each Desired Life2424Each section below covers one Desired Life, including its in-game description, recommended traits, default values, aligned skills, default ambition, default preferences, and practical gameplay notes.2626Life of Abundance2828"Seeks financial security and comfort. Aims for material wealth and stability. Aspires to share a rich life with family and friends."3030The Life of Abundance pursues economic stability and material comfort. Zois on this path want to accumulate wealth and then share the benefits of that wealth with the people around them.3232AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsSocialiteGo-GetterDefault ValuesAuthority, AccomplishmentAligned SkillsRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Charm, Programming, HouseworkDefault AmbitionLuxury MansionDefault PreferencesBall Sports, Coffee, Carnivorous, Plants, Self-Help Books3434This is one of the strongest paths for players aiming to build a high-value property and live comfortably. The Socialite trait boosts social interactions, making it easier to network and build business relationships, while Go-Getter helps with career advancement. The Luxury Mansion ambition requires holding 50,000 Meow and living on a property valued at 35,000+ Meow to reach the first milestone. The aligned Rhetoric and Charm skills support both social climbing and career promotions.3535Life of Advancement3737"Seeks self-improvement and learning. Aims to achieve personal and professional goals. Aspires to overcome limitations and grow."3939The Life of Advancement focuses on continuous growth and self-improvement. Zois with this path are constantly pushing themselves to learn new things and develop their abilities through productive pursuits.4141AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsPerfectionistExplorerDefault ValuesChallenger, AccomplishmentAligned SkillsRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Programming, Fitness, Media ProductionDefault AmbitionCompetent TalentDefault PreferencesJogging, Coffee, Carnivorous, Self-Help Books, Cleaning4343The Competent Talent ambition involves maintaining a full-time job and getting promoted multiple times, making this path well-suited for career-focused playthroughs. The Perfectionist trait helps Zois complete tasks at higher quality, and Explorer encourages trying new activities. Programming and Media Production are useful income-generating skills, while Fitness keeps the Zoi healthy and energized. The Cleaning preference means this Zoi will autonomously tidy up without prompting.4444Life of Perseverance4646"Seeks new tasks and goals. Aims to grow through continuous challenges. Aspires to become stronger and explore life's possibilities."4848The Life of Perseverance is for Zois who enjoy tackling new challenges and growing through overcoming obstacles. They value the experience gained from difficult situations and thrive on exploring diverse possibilities.5050AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsAdventurerEntertainerDefault ValuesChallenger, PleasureAligned SkillsCritical Thinking, Fitness, Media ProductionCookingCoffee ArtDefault AmbitionFitness MasterDefault PreferencesBoxing, Street FoodAnimalsDancing, Taking Photos5252This Desired Life shares the same default traits (Adventurer, Entertainer) and values (Challenger, Pleasure) as the Life of Excitementbut its aligned skills lean toward physical fitness and practical know-how rather than social charm. The Fitness Master ambition requires working out regularly and reaching Fitness level 10, making this a good choice for Zois who stay active. The Coffee Art skill provides an additional creative outlet and income source through barista work. Some external sources refer to this Desired Life as the "Life of Perseverance."5353Life of Contribution5555"Seeks to impact others and society positively. Aims for a meaningful life through service. Aspires to share happiness and transform the world."5757The Life of Contribution is all about giving back to the community. Zois on this path want to make a positive impact on the people around them and find fulfillment through acts of service and shared happiness.5959AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsCollaboratorVolunteerDefault ValuesCoexistence, LoveAligned SkillsFitness, PerformanceCookingHousework, ParentingDefault AmbitionCheerful NeighborDefault PreferencesBall Sports, Street Food, CleaningLaundryCar Washing6161The Cheerful Neighbor ambition revolves around building positive relationships with other residents, requiring friendship conversations, gifts, and eventually establishing 10 BFF relationships. This path pairs naturally with community-oriented activities like cooking for others, cleaning shared spaces, and helping neighbors. The Performance skill enables entertaining other Zois and boosting their mood. The default preferences lean heavily toward practical household and neighborhood activities.6262Life of Creativity6464"Seeks to create through original thinking. Aims to express creativity in various fields. Aspires to impact the world with unique ideas."6666The Life of Creativity embraces artistic expression and innovation across multiple disciplines. Zois on this path want to break conventions and express themselves through art, music, video production, and other creative outlets.6868AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsVisionaryDreamerDefault ValuesAutonomy, CoexistenceAligned SkillsCharm, Performance, Art, Media ProductionInstrumentsDefault AmbitionGreat PainterDefault PreferencesAppreciating Art, Painting, Gaming, Art Books, Guitar7070This path supports multiple income streams through painting, video creation, and musical performances, making it a strong choice for "rags-to-riches" challenge playthroughs. The Great Painter ambition requires buying an easel, painting pictures, and eventually reaching Art level 10. The Visionary trait encourages innovative thinking, while Dreamer provides a creative emotional baseline. Zois on this path will autonomously seek out artistic activities when Free Will is enabled.7171Life of Excitement7373"Seeks the thrills brought by risky situations or unpredictable moments. Aspires to feel alive by chasing adventure and adrenaline rushes."7575The Life of Excitement is for thrill-seeking Zois who savor danger and unpredictability. These Zois feel most alive when taking risks and chasing adrenaline rather than following safe, predictable routines.7777AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsAdventurerEntertainerDefault ValuesChallenger, PleasureAligned SkillsCharm, Fitness, Media ProductionInstrumentsCoffee ArtDefault AmbitionFamous HackerDefault PreferencesBoxing, Ball Sports, Spicy Food, Taking Photos, Drums7979Despite the seemingly innocent name, this Desired Life's default Famous Hacker ambition aligns with the Crime skill system. The ambition involves reaching Programming level 10 and hacking ATMs and banks. This makes Life of Excitement the best pick for players planning a criminal or chaotic playthrough. The Charm and Instruments skills provide cover activities for a Zoi living a double life. The Drums preference means this Zoi will autonomously play percussion instruments when one is available.8080Life of Familial Devotion8282"Seeks to start a large and loving family. Aims to devote themselves towards a happy family life. Aspires to make their household bigger."8484The Life of Familial Devotion centers entirely on building and nurturing a family. Zois on this path find their greatest accomplishment in raising children, maintaining a happy household, and growing their family size.8686AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsVolunteerCollaboratorDefault ValuesCoexistence, LoveAligned SkillsRhetoric, Media ProductionCookingHousework, ParentingDefault AmbitionLoving FamilyDefault PreferencesBall SportsAnimalsTaking Photos, Cleaning, Car Washing8888The Loving Family ambition requires forming a family, having positive conversations with a partner, and raising children with positive interactions. This path emphasizes Cooking, Housework, and Parenting skills, making it ideal for stay-at-home parents or Zois focused on marriage and child-rearing. The Volunteer and Collaborator traits complement family life because they encourage cooperative behavior and helping others. Some sources refer to this Desired Life simply as "Life of Devotion."8989Life of Freedom9191"Seeks to live without constraints. Values personal freedom and autonomy. Aspires to find true happiness through a life of freedom."9393The Life of Freedom is for Zois who reject external rules and social norms. They want to carve their own independent path and find happiness through personal autonomy rather than conforming to expectations.9595AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsIndividualistAuthoritarianDefault ValuesAutonomy, PleasureAligned SkillsCharm, Rhetoric, Performance, ArtInstrumentsDefault AmbitionNation's SweetheartDefault PreferencesYoga, Cake, Painting, Gaming, Guitar9797The Individualist trait makes this Zoi less influenced by social pressure, while Authoritarian gives them a commanding presence. The Nation's Sweetheart ambition requires Charm level 10 and maintaining 5 true love relationshipswhich may seem contradictory for a "freedom" path, but it reflects the idea that this Zoi attracts others through their independent charisma. The aligned skills (Charm, Rhetoric, Performance, Art, Instruments) are all creative and social, supporting a bohemian lifestyle. The Yoga and Painting preferences encourage a relaxed, artistic daily routine.9898Life of Harmony100100"Seeks to coexist with nature in harmony. Aims to be a friend to flora and fauna alike. Aspires to maintain a serene atmosphere through a sustainable lifestyle."102102The Life of Harmony is for Zois who find peace and purpose through their connection with nature. They value sustainable living, environmental protection, and maintaining tranquility for themselves and everyone around them.104104AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsSocial ActivistVolunteerDefault ValuesCoexistence, LoveAligned SkillsArt, Media ProductionCookingParentingGardeningDefault AmbitionPlant LoverDefault PreferencesJogging, CoffeeAnimalsPlants, Taking Photos106106The Plant Lover ambition involves buying houseplants, watering them, reaching Gardening level 10, and arranging bonsai. This path pairs well with the garden and outdoor furniture systems, allowing players to create lush, plant-filled properties. The Animals and Plants preferences mean this Zoi will autonomously interact with pets and tend to gardens. Combined with Life of Simplicity, these two paths form the core "peaceful living" option for nature-focused playthroughs.107107Life of Respectability109109"Seeks to uphold and realize their beliefs. Aims to abide by self-determined principles. Aspires to make achievements that will bring them pride and renown."111111The Life of Respectability is for Zois who want to earn respect through merit and principled leadership. They devote themselves to proving their worth and achieving recognition through hard work and determination.113113AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsGo-GetterLeaderDefault ValuesAutonomy, AuthorityAligned SkillsRhetoric, Critical Thinking, Fitness, Media Production, Coffee ArtDefault AmbitionNext Gen LeaderDefault PreferencesJogging, Coffee, Carnivorous, Self-Help BooksLaundry115115The Next Gen Leader ambition focuses on building Rhetoric skill to level 10, reading self-help books, and having 100 positive business conversations. This is one of the best paths for pure career climbing, as the Go-Getter trait accelerates promotions and the Leader trait improves team interactions. The Fitness and Coffee Art skills round out the profile of a disciplined, high-performing professional. The Self-Help Books preference means this Zoi will autonomously read career-oriented material during free time.116116Life of Romance118118"Seeks to engage in many relationships with various Zois and aims to stay true to their desires. Aspires to devote themselves to their current partner."120120The Life of Romance is focused entirely on romantic relationships. Zois on this path want to form deep romantic connections and maintain devoted partnerships, though they may also pursue flirtatious interactions with multiple Zois along the way.122122AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsCharmerEntertainerDefault ValuesChallenger, LoveAligned SkillsCharm, Rhetoric, PerformanceInstrumentsCookingDefault AmbitionNation's SweetheartDefault PreferencesYoga, VegetarianAnimalsSinging, Guitar124124The Charmer trait is key here because it makes building romantic relationships significantly faster. Trait compatibility affects relationship speed: "Very Good" compatibility lets relationships progress in roughly 30 in-game minutes, while "Very Bad" compatibility takes around 90 minutes of continuous interaction. The Nation's Sweetheart ambition requires maintaining 5 true love relationships and reaching Charm level 10. The Singing and Guitar preferences create a musically romantic Zoi who serenades partners autonomously.125125A Life of Self-Creation127127"Embrace your creative potential and chart your own path. Enjoy the thrill of unexpected discoveries and forge your unique story."129129The A Life of Self-Creation is a blank slate. It sets no recommended traits, no default values, no aligned skills, no ambition, and no preferences. Everything starts at neutral, giving the player complete freedom to develop the Zoi in any direction they choose.131131AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsNoneDefault ValuesNoneAligned SkillsNoneDefault AmbitionNoneDefault PreferencesNone133133This is the recommended choice for sandbox or completionist playthroughs where the player wants to max all skills, complete all ambitions, and reach the highest positions in every career without being funneled toward one path. Because no Urges are generated from a Desired Life, the Zoi's behavior under Free Will is driven entirely by their Traits and current Needs. Some external sources refer to this as "A Life of Self-Creation."134134Life of Simplicity136136"Seeks to pursue a minimalistic life by reducing unnecessary consumption. Aspires to find satisfaction in the small things."138138The Life of Simplicity promotes minimalism and frugality. Zois on this path prefer fulfilling their basic needs without excess and find contentment in modest routines and small pleasures.140140AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsPerfectionistSocial ActivistDefault ValuesCoexistence, Rule-AbidingAligned SkillsCritical Thinking, FitnessCookingCoffee ArtGardeningDefault AmbitionTranquil MindDefault PreferencesJogging, Appreciating Art, Gaming, Health BooksRepair142142The Tranquil Mind ambition involves practicing yoga, taking hot showers, meditating 50 times, and relaxing on sunbeds. This is a low-cost path that does not require expensive purchases or high-end property, making it budget-friendly for new households. The Gardening and Cooking skills allow the Zoi to be self-sufficient, and the Repair preference means they will fix broken objects around the house without being told. Paired with the Life of Harmony, these two paths form the complete nature and sustainability playstyle.143143Life of Stability145145"Seeks to follow fixed norms and social conventions. Aims to choose the path most taken. Aspires to keep things at a quotidian pace."147147The Life of Stability is for Zois who prefer predictability, routines, and conventional living. They value consistency over creativity and are happiest when things stay on a steady, familiar course.149149AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsSentinelMediatorDefault ValuesSafety, Rule-AbidingAligned SkillsRhetoric, Critical ThinkingCookingHouseworkGardeningDefault AmbitionWealthDefault PreferencesCoffee, Carnivorous, Gaming, CleaningLaundry151151The Wealth ambition requires holding 200,000 Meow and living on a property valued over 50,000 Meow, which might seem at odds with a "stable" personality, but it reflects the desire for financial security as the foundation of a predictable life. The Sentinel trait makes this Zoi vigilant about household safety, and the Mediator trait helps them resolve conflicts peacefully. The Cleaning and Laundry preferences mean this Zoi will keep the house tidy on their own. This is a strong pairing for dual-income households where one Zoi handles domestic duties.152152Life of Tranquility154154"Seeks to minimize stress and conflict. Aims for peace of mind and a stable life. Aspires to inner calm and happiness."156156The Life of Tranquility pursues inner peace above all else. Zois on this path want to eliminate stress and conflict from their lives and maintain emotional stability through calm, harmonious routines.158158AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsDreamerMediatorDefault ValuesTraditionalist, SafetyAligned SkillsRhetoric, FitnessCookingHouseworkGardeningDefault AmbitionTranquil MindDefault PreferencesYoga, Vegetarian, Plants, Health Books, Piano160160The Tranquil Mind ambition (shared with Life of Simplicity) focuses on meditation, yoga, and relaxation activities. The Dreamer trait gives this Zoi a creative and introspective emotional baseline, while the Mediator trait helps them defuse tense situations with other Zois. The Piano preference means this Zoi will autonomously play piano when one is available, providing a calming ambient activity. The Vegetarian preference and Health Books reading preference reinforce the health-conscious, peaceful lifestyle. This is one of the lowest-maintenance Desired Lives, as it does not require expensive purchases or aggressive social networking.161161Life of Wisdom163163"Seeks wisdom through experience and learning. Aims to solve challenges with insight. Aspires to guide life and create a better future."165165The Life of Wisdom is for Zois who value knowledge and intellectual growth above all else. They accumulate wisdom through experience, reading, and careful analysis, and they aspire to use that wisdom to make better decisions and help others.167167AttributeDetailsRecommended TraitsScholarExplorerDefault ValuesRule-Abiding, ChallengerAligned SkillsCritical Thinking, ProgrammingCookingHouseworkGardeningDefault AmbitionKnowledge SeekerDefault PreferencesVegetarian, Appreciating Art, Self-Help Books, Art BooksRepair169169The Knowledge Seeker ambition requires buying a bookshelf, reading many books, reaching Critical Thinking level 10, and writing 20 times. The Scholar trait boosts skill acquisition speed and provides bonuses when studying, while Explorer encourages the Zoi to try new activities and visit new places. Programming is a particularly valuable aligned skill because it opens up high-paying career options. The Repair preference means this Zoi will fix broken appliances and furniture on their own, and the Art Books and Self-Help Books preferences mean they will autonomously read whenever they have downtime.170170Trait Compatibility and Urge Generation172172A Zoi's Urges are generated from three sources: their Traitstheir Desired Life, and their Values. When the Desired Life's recommended Traits match the Zoi's actual Traits, these three sources work in concert and produce Urges that all point in the same direction. This makes fulfilling Urges faster and more efficient because the Zoi naturally wants to do activities that progress their ambition.174174Mismatching Traits and Desired Lives is permitted and can create interesting gameplay dynamics. For example, assigning the Life of Romance to a Zoi with the Sentinel trait will produce conflicting Urges: the Desired Life pushes toward romantic interactions, while the Sentinel trait generates Urges focused on safety and vigilance. This can make the Zoi feel "torn" between two lifestyles, which some players find more realistic and entertaining.176176Urge Mechanics and Exclusive Urges178178Each Zoi can have up to 4 simultaneous Urges at any time. Urges expire after 12 in-game hours if left unfulfilled. There is no karma or mood penalty for ignoring Urges, but fulfilling them awards Meow Coins and a temporary mood boost. When you click on an Urge in the UI, the submenu shows what triggered it (which Trait, Value, or Desired Life caused it) and the expected reward.180180Some Urges are exclusive to specific Desired Lives. For instance, the "Wants to Buy a Lottery Ticket" Urge only triggers for Zois with the Life of Abundance. Likewise, certain Urges tied to gardening only appear for Zois with the Life of Harmony or Life of Simplicity. These exclusive Urges provide a small but steady source of bonus Meow that other Desired Lives cannot access.182182Ambitions184184Ambitions are long-term goals with 3 progression levels. Each level contains specific objectives that must all be completed before the next level unlocks. Completing individual goals awards Meow. Finishing all three levels of an ambition awards a larger Meow bonus and unlocks new interactions tied to that ambition. Ambitions can be changed at any time.186186Each Desired Life sets a default ambition that aligns with its theme, but players are free to select any ambition they want regardless of their chosen Desired Life. The default ambition simply provides a logical starting point. Below is a summary of all ambition categories and their associated goals.189189Career Success191191Next Gen LeaderLevel 1: Read self-help books 10 times. Level 2: Reach Rhetoric level 6, read self-help books 10 more times. Level 3: Have 100 positive business conversations, reach Rhetoric level 10.193193Competent TalentLevel 1: Shake hands with acquaintances 10 times, practice investment simulation 5 times. Level 2: Maintain a full-time jobget promoted. Level 3: Toast with business partners 10 times, get promoted twice more.195195Contribute to Community197197Community PhilanthropistLevel 1: Mail letters 5 times, donate via ATM 5 times. Level 2: Donate via mailbox 10 times, donate books 15 times. Level 3: Donate to homeless 10 times, pledge organ donation via computer.199199Cheerful NeighborLevel 1: Have 5 positive conversations with unfamiliar residents, 5 friendship conversations. Level 2: Have 15 friendship conversations, give thank-you cards or gifts 10 times. Level 3: Establish 10 BFF relationshipsdance excitedly 20 times with BFFs.201201Creative Expression203203Great PainterLevel 1: Buy an easel, paint 3 pictures. Level 2: Paint 10 pictures, read art books 10 times. Level 3: Reach Art level 10, appreciate art 10 times while Curious.205205Voice of HeavenLevel 1: Buy a standing microphone, sing 3 songs. Level 2: Sing 10 songs while Amused, reach Performance level 6. Level 3: Sing at karaoke booth 10 times, reach Performance level 10.207207Pro MusicianLevel 1: Buy an instrumentplay 3 times. Level 2: Play drums 10 times, play instruments 10 times while Sentimental. Level 3: Reach Instrument level 10, play guitar 20 times.209209Family Happiness211211Loving FamilyLevel 1: Form a familyhave 3 positive partner conversations. Level 2: Have 20 positive partner conversations, 10 sentimental family conversations. Level 3: Have 50 positive partner conversations, 30 positive child conversations.213213Parenting ExpertLevel 1: Play with child 5 times, dance for child 5 times. Level 2: Tell stories 10 times, care for child 20 times. Level 3: Sing fun songs 10 times, care for child 50 times.215215Financial Success217217WealthLevel 1: Hold 50,000 Meow, buy furniture over 800 Meow 5 times. Level 2: Deposit money 10 times, live on property valued 35,000+ Meow. Level 3: Hold 200,000 Meow, live on property over 50,000 Meow.219219Luxury MansionLevel 1: Hold 50,000 Meow, live on 35,000+ Meow property. Level 2: Buy furniture over 1,500 Meow, plant 10 medium+ trees. Level 3: Buy furniture over 800 Meow 5 times, live on property over 50,000 Meow.221221Harmony and Peace223223Plant LoverLevel 1: Buy 5 houseplants, water flowerpots 3 times. Level 2: Water plants 10 times, reach Gardening level 6. Level 3: Arrange bonsai 5 times, reach Gardening level 10.225225Tranquil MindLevel 1: Buy a yoga mat, practice yoga 3 times. Level 2: Do yoga 10 times, take hot showers 5 times while Uncomfortable. Level 3: Meditate 50 times, relax on sunbed 30 times.227227Knowledge and Learning229229Walking EncyclopediaLevel 1: Fix broken objects 3 times, reach level 5 in 3 skills. Level 2: Craft furniture 15 times, reach level 8 in 5 skills. Level 3: Create videos 20 times, reach level 10 in 5 skills.231231Knowledge SeekerLevel 1: Buy a bookshelf, read 3 books. Level 2: Read 10 books, read newspapers 5 times. Level 3: Reach Critical Thinking level 10, write 20 times.233233Romantic Relationship235235Nation's SweetheartLevel 1: Have 5 positive romantic conversations. Level 2: Have 50 positive romantic conversations. Level 3: Reach Charm level 10, maintain 5 true love relationships.237237Partners in LoveLevel 1: Establish a mutual crush, hold hands 3 times. Level 2: Hold hands 10 times, serenade 10 times. Level 3: Propose while Aflutter, show affection 20 times.239239Social Disorder241241Notorious VillainLevel 1: Kick vending machines 5 times, secretly drop items 3 times. Level 2: Knock down others 3 times, start 5 fights. Level 3: Scam with false investment claims 5 times, get arrested 5 times.243243Famous HackerLevel 1: Reach Programming level 3, commit secondhand sale scams 5 times. Level 2: Reach Programming level 6, hack ATMs 10 times. Level 3: Reach Programming level 10, hack banks 3 times.245245Stay Healthy247247Fitness MasterLevel 1: Buy fitness equipment, work out 3 times. Level 2: Read health books 10 times, reach Fitness level 6. Level 3: Work out 20 times while Focused, reach Fitness level 10.249249Neat FreakLevel 1: Buy a cleaning tool, clean 3 times. Level 2: Clean 10 times, buy a washing machine. Level 3: Do laundry 20 times, reach Housework level 10.251251Master ChefLevel 1: Cook from a refrigerator 5 times. Level 2: Reach Cooking level 6, cook 20 times. Level 3: Reach Cooking level 10, cook 30 times.253253How Desired Lives Affect Gameplay255255Urges257257Zois receive Urges aligned with their Desired Life more frequently. Each Zoi can have up to 4 simultaneous urges at any time, and they expire after 12 in-game hours. There is no penalty for ignoring urges, but fulfilling them awards Meow Coins and a mood boost. Some urges are gated behind specific Desired Lives. For example, the "Wants to Buy a Lottery Ticket" urge only triggers for Zois with the Life of Abundance.259259When you click an urge, the submenu shows what caused it (which trait, value, or Desired Life triggered it) and the expected reward. Urges generated by the Desired Life specifically are labeled with the Desired Life icon in the tooltip, making it easy to distinguish them from Trait-generated or Value-generated Urges.261261Value Growth263263Desired Lives set initial Value distributions during character creation. Values range from 0 to 100, and the Value with the highest score becomes the Zoi's Core Value. When any Value reaches 60 or above, it unlocks additional interactions, new urges, and special event opportunities. For example, a Zoi with Authority above 60 gains access to leadership-specific social interactions, while a Zoi with Love above 60 unlocks deeper romantic conversation options.265265Changing a Desired Life later does not retroactively alter accumulated Value progress. Values continue to grow based on the Zoi's actions regardless of which Desired Life is currently selected.267267Preferences269269Each Desired Life sets 5 default Preferences that align with its theme. Preferences are organized into 7 categories with 33 total options:271271CategoryOptionsSportYoga, Jogging, Boxing, Ball SportsFoodVegetarian, Carnivorous, Spicy Food, Street Food, Cake, CoffeePerceptionAnimalsPlants, Appreciating ArtHobbiesPainting, Gaming, Dancing, Taking Photos, SingingReadingSelf-Help Books, Health Books, Art BooksInstrumentsPiano, Guitar, DrumsActivitiesCleaningLaundryCar WashingRepair273273Preferences directly influence urges and emotional responses. A Zoi who likes Animals may trigger the "Wants to Bond With Animals" urge, while a Zoi who dislikes Spicy Food will get a negative emotion if served a spicy meal. Preferences can be modified at any time through the Zoi Card, with up to 10 preferences per Zoi set as either likes or dislikes. Changing a Desired Life does not automatically reset modified preferences.274274Autonomous Behavior276276When Free Will is enabled (toggled with the T key), Zois independently fulfill needs and respond to urges. Traits and preferences determine which activities the AI selects, and the Desired Life shapes which urges and values guide those decisions. A Zoi with Life of Creativity will autonomously paint, play instruments, and browse art when free, while a Zoi with Life of Stability will gravitate toward cleaning, cooking, and routine household tasks.278278Note that the Desired Life does not affect skill growth rates in the current Early Access build. All Zois gain skill experience at the same speed regardless of their Desired Life. The skill growth rate is affected by the Zoi's emotion state and certain Traits, but not by the Desired Life itself.280280Changing Desired Lives282282Unlike Traits (which are permanent after character creation), Desired Lives can be changed at any time:284284Open the Zoi Card from the bottom-left corner of the screen or press O on the keyboard.Navigate to the Desired Life section.Click to change or remove the current Desired Life.286286Desired Lives are also entirely optional. A Zoi does not need to have one selected at all. Changing or removing a Desired Life does not reset accumulated Value progress or previously completed ambition milestones. The new Desired Life's default preferences, values, and ambition will not overwrite any manual changes you have already made; the new defaults only apply to settings that are still at their original values.288288When you switch Desired Lives, the Urge pool refreshes over the next few in-game hours. Urges tied to the old Desired Life will expire naturally, and new Urges aligned with the new Desired Life will begin appearing. There is no cooldown or penalty for changing frequently, so players can experiment with different Desired Lives to find the one that best matches their current goals.290290Desired Lives That Share Traits and Values292292Several Desired Lives share the same recommended Traits or default Values, which can make choosing between them confusing. The table below highlights the key overlaps and differences.294294PairingSharedDifferenceAdventure vs. ExcitementTraits (AdventurerEntertainer)Values (Challenger, Pleasure)Adventure emphasizes physical fitness and practical skills (FitnessCookingCoffee Art). Excitement emphasizes social charm and music (CharmInstrumentsCoffee Art). Adventure defaults to Fitness Master; Excitement defaults to Famous Hacker.Contribution vs. Familial DevotionValues (Coexistence, Love), similar Traits (Collaborator/Volunteer swapped)Contribution focuses on community service (Cheerful Neighbor ambition). Familial Devotion focuses on household and children (Loving Family ambition). Contribution includes Performance; Familial Devotion includes Rhetoric.Simplicity vs. TranquilityBoth share Tranquil Mind ambitionCookingGardening skillsSimplicity pairs Perfectionist + Social Activist and includes Coffee Art. Tranquility pairs Dreamer + Mediator and includes Rhetoric and Fitness.Freedom vs. RomanceBoth default to Nation's Sweetheart ambitionFreedom uses Individualist + Authoritarian with Autonomy/Pleasure values. Romance uses Charmer + Entertainer with Challenger/Love values. Freedom is about independence; Romance is about connection.296296Strategy Tips by Playstyle297297Family-Focused Gameplay300300Life of Familial Devotion pairs with the Volunteer or Collaborator traits and defaults to the Loving Family ambition. This path emphasizes Cooking, Rhetoric, and Media Production, making it ideal for stay-at-home parents or Zois focused on marriage and raising children. For a secondary caretaker, consider pairing one Zoi with Life of Familial Devotion and the other with Life of Contribution, since both share Coexistence and Love values and will generate compatible Urges.302302Romance and Relationships304304Life of Romance pairs with the Charmer trait, which makes building romantic relationships faster. Trait compatibility affects relationship speed: "Very Good" compatibility lets relationships progress in roughly 30 in-game minutes, while "Very Bad" compatibility takes around 90 minutes of continuous interaction. Compatibility is determined by Traits, not Desired Lives. For a dramatic or manipulative romance playthrough, pair Life of Romance with the Entertainer trait instead of Charmer to prioritize Performance-based social interactions.306306Wealth and Career308308Life of Abundance pairs with the Go-Getter trait for faster career progression and defaults to the Luxury Mansion ambition. For pure career climbingLife of Respectability (Next Gen Leader ambition) and Life of Advancement (Competent Talent ambition) are also strong picks. The key difference: Abundance focuses on accumulating material wealth, Respectability focuses on social standing and leadership, and Advancement focuses on personal skill development and promotions.310310Creative and Artistic Income312312Life of Creativity pairs with Visionary or Dreamer traits and defaults to the Great Painter ambition. This path supports multiple income streams through art, video production, and music, making it a good choice for "rags-to-riches" challenges. The Art, Media Production, and Instruments skills all generate sellable items or performable acts. For maximum creative output, furnish the home with an easel, a standing microphone, and a guitar, then let Free Will handle the rest.314314Nature and Gardening316316Life of Harmony defaults to the Plant Lover ambition and emphasizes Coexistence and Love values. Combined with Life of Simplicitythese paths focus on environmental engagementgardeningand peaceful living. Both paths include Cooking and Gardening as aligned skills, so switching between them does not waste skill progress. For the ultimate nature setup, place houseplants, a garden plot, and outdoor seating on the property to trigger nature-related Urges as often as possible.318318Criminal and Chaos Gameplay320320Life of Excitement defaults to the Famous Hacker ambition, which aligns with the Crime skill system for hacking ATMs and running scams. This is the best pick for players planning a criminal playthrough. For maximum chaos, pair it with the Adventurer trait and assign the Notorious Villain ambition instead of Famous Hacker, which focuses on physical confrontations rather than digital crime. Be aware that high Crime Scores can lead to arrest and trial as of v0.5.0.322322Sandbox and Completionist324324A Life of Self-Creation sets no presets, enabling players to max all skills, complete all ambitions, and reach the highest job positions without being funneled toward one path. This is the recommended choice for completionist playthroughs. Because no Desired Life Urges are generated, all Urges come from Traits and Values, giving the player full control over which activities the Zoi gravitates toward. Consider assigning the Walking Encyclopedia ambition, which requires reaching level 10 in 5 different skills and is well-suited to a generalist playthrough.326326New Player Recommendation328328Players who are unsure which Desired Life to pick should consider starting with Life of Abundance or Life of Advancement. Both provide a clear direction (earn money, get promoted) that introduces the game's core career and skill systems without requiring advanced knowledge. Once comfortable with the mechanics, switching to a more specialized path like Life of Creativity or Life of Romance can provide a fresh challenge.330330Alternative Names332332Some Desired Lives have appeared under different names in various localizations, early builds, and external guides. The following table lists known naming variations.334334Wiki NameAlternative Name(s)NotesLife of PerseveranceLife of AdventureSome English guides use "Adventure" based on earlier localization strings.A Life of Self-CreationLife of Self-DiscoverySome external guides (notably) list this as "Life of Self-Discovery" rather than the official in-game name.Life of Familial DevotionLife of DevotionSome current community data use the shorter "Life of Devotion" name.Life of ContributionLife of ContributionOccasionally listed as "Community Service" in unofficial translations.336336This wiki uses the names shown in the "Wiki Name" column for consistency across all articles. If a name changes in a future update, the old slugs will redirect to the new article via aliases.337337Future Development339339The 2026 development roadmap includes plans to "enhance desired life aspirations with new urges and missions," indicating the system will be expanded beyond its current Early Access state with additional content tied to each Desired Life.341341The v0.5.0 update (December 2025) added three new ambition categories (Collecting and Crafting, Business Success, and Lifehacker), expanding the total number of available ambitions. The v0.7.0 anniversary update (March 2026) added Master Barista, Master Baker, and Master Bartender ambitions. These additions suggest that future updates may also introduce new Desired Lives or additional ambitions that tie into existing Desired Life themes.343343Currently, Desired Lives do not affect skill growth rates. This has been noted as a potential area for future development, where aligning a Desired Life with specific skills could provide a small experience bonus. No official confirmation of this feature has been given, so this remains speculative.
